Coaches, consultants, and business owners, you will appreciate this. So, I had a huge breakthrough around my frustrations last night. Over 1,000 women in my messages want to get “unstuck” with weight, work/life balance, spiritual gifts, life, business, and money. Yet, the thing they are wishing for WILL require action. But they are afraid to SPEND MONEY. Then, I reminded myself that when I get frustrated with potential clients, they are not my ideal clients. Here’s what my ideal client looks like.
My perfect ideal client avatar.
The people I enjoy working with the most are the ones who make money—the crazy ones who don’t know what the future holds but do it anyway!
Allowing women to join my mastermind who have a poverty and scarcity mindset is like a virus… infecting those around them. They only think about how they can’t do things vs what they CAN DO. f**ing, please. They are also the ones who add TONS of pressure to the process. They feel rushed to complete things and get results because of MONEY and LACK, which defeats the WHOLE purpose of why they are here. When the program is over, they feel disappointed because they expected their 40 years of Fuc&ed up programming to heal in 3 months or a year … all because they spent more than they were comfortable with.
The truth is, I only speak hustle. Work and empowered sh*t around what we get to have in life.
This is hard to talk about, to be honest, and a LOT of ladies will unfollow me for talking about money in this way.
But seriously, how can I help women get healthy and break generational curses when all they can think about is how much things cost and how they can’t afford sh*t? It’s time to evolve and choose a new way of being in and around money.
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I used to feel bad about saying this—but no. I’ve worked my f***ing ass off, and I’m just getting warmed up.
In the past, if I couldn’t buy the thing, I would figure out a way to start with the coach’s low-ticket offer and work my way up or even take out a loan! I’ve done that multiple times, and I learned lessons each time that were more valuable than the DOLLAR AMOUNT I paid (interest included).
I try to offer empowerment books and other such items to help the ladies, but the truth is that every woman I know who has money is self-made. We all start at the bottom and have to work our way up. I have low-ticket offers for those who refuse to open up to the abundance paradigm and or physically can’t pay because they have $2 in their bank account. ( I’ve been there)
The woman I like to work with doesn’t wait until they have the money. The woman I like to work with doesn’t determine every f*&^ing move she makes based on a dollar amount. She knows she can have whatever the fu*$ she desires and works towards that! She KNOWS she’s the creator. She knows she’s capable of creating a way.
The women I can help put themselves in rooms with people who are doing better than them. They value GROWTH over short-term interest or saving money.
Okay. That’s all. I believe we get what we dream up, and people, mentors, and coaches are placed here to help us on our journey.
Wake up. Get shaken up and boss the f*** up. Get this body and create that dream life.
You have to create stability, support, and security in your life, and you sure as sh*t don’t get there by living in scarcity.
